By Mushtaq Bala
Every year, November 19 marks the celebration of International Men’s Day (IMD)—a day dedicated to honoring men and boys for their contributions to society, their families, communities, and the world at large. The day serves not only to recognize their achievements but also to shed light on the challenges they face in various spheres of life.
The Theme for 2024
The theme for this year’s International Men’s Day is “Embracing Diversity: Celebrating Strength in Unity.” It calls for acknowledging the diverse roles men play—fathers, brothers, mentors, leaders, and advocates—while encouraging inclusivity and unity.
Origins of International Men’s Day
The idea of International Men’s Day was first inaugurated on February 7, 1992, by Thomas Oaster, a professor at the University of Missouri-Kansas City. However, it was revitalized in 1999 by Dr. Jerome Teelucksingh in Trinidad and Tobago. Dr. Teelucksingh emphasized that this day was not about competition with International Women’s Day but rather about complementing it, fostering a balance in conversations about gender and societal contributions.
Celebrating Men Across the Globe
Men play indispensable roles in all aspects of life, yet their efforts often go unnoticed. From working long hours to ensure economic stability to stepping up as caregivers in families, men have shown resilience and adaptability. This day is an opportunity to celebrate:
• Fathers who nurture and support their children.
• Mentors who inspire and guide the next generation.
• Workers across various fields contributing to economic growth.
• Advocates striving to build a fair and just society.
Addressing Men’s Issues
While International Men’s Day celebrates achievements, it also sheds light on pressing issues that affect men disproportionately:
• Mental Health: Men are less likely to seek help for mental health challenges, leading to higher rates of depression and suicide.
• Health Awareness: Diseases like prostate cancer often go undiagnosed due to stigmas surrounding male health.
• Societal Expectations: Traditional notions of masculinity can sometimes restrict men from expressing vulnerability or pursuing non-traditional roles.
Breaking Stereotypes and Building Inclusive Conversations
International Men’s Day aims to challenge outdated stereotypes and foster dialogues about equality. Men are as much a part of the gender equality movement as women, and IMD emphasizes the need for solidarity between genders to create a harmonious world.
How Can You Celebrate?
• Express Gratitude: Appreciate the men in your life for their contributions and sacrifices.
• Spread Awareness: Use social media platforms to discuss the importance of men’s health and equality.
• Support Men’s Causes: Contribute to organizations working on male-specific issues like mental health, education, or domestic violence.
• Celebrate Role Models: Share stories of inspiring men who have made a difference in their communities.
The Way Forward
As we celebrate International Men’s Day, let us remember that this day is not just about recognition but also about progress. By addressing the challenges men face and encouraging healthy discussions about gender roles, we take steps towards building a society that values everyone equally.
Conclusion
International Men’s Day is more than just a celebration; it is a call to action. It invites us to break barriers, foster understanding, and appreciate the contributions of men in every walk of life. This November 19, let us celebrate the men in our lives and work together towards a future of mutual respect and collaboration.
By Mushtaq Bala , editor in chief of Kashmir pen can be reached @ mushtaqabala@gmail.com
